The Benefit of Asking for Advice

While on a recent trip to visit my daughter in Seattle, I came across this hilarious plaque. It struck me as funny because my daughter’s boyfriend had just talked about how frustrating it is when people ask advice and then do not take it. Here is my opinion on advice:

People ask for advice to help identify their true answer or discover their inner truth. Personally, I have a panel of experts (close friends and family that I respect completely), who I bounce things off of. Each presents back to me their idea of what I should do, based on personal experiences and filters. Through this input, I receive the information and listen to my internal reaction. Depending on how it sits with me, I make an authentic decision based on my truth.

Listen to Your Gut Reaction

Some people’s advice makes me think, “Nope, I will definitely not do that.” Another’s advice might make me react, “Something like that.” Yet another’s might result in a, “That’s it!” All are important to the process. There really is no such thing as good or bad advice. It is just a touch point for the receiver to help define what is right for that person.

When people ask for advice, they may not followed your suggestion. However, your advice is important to the recipient as a tool to reach his or her own decision. Give advice freely and without expectation.